Hi, I’m Ellie Hatto, the voice of Beside Yourself.

It’s a platform to share the content I produce and celebrate the “passion” projects I can’t help but get involved in.

My areas of focus are quite simply the traumatic life experiences and situations that have impacted me personally.

I’m a firm believer in the power of honest conversations for the greater good, to break down barriers and reduce feelings of isolation and shame. My dad taking his own life set me on a path of opening up about my experiences and I haven’t stopped since.

I consider myself an advocate for those walking a similar path to me and seek to inform and educate others who may benefit from understanding more about our experiences and how they can play a part in our ongoing healing experience. I fully support the gift that is the lived experience “voice”, respecting its power and influence to agitate the status quo, challenge assumptions, misperceptions and social inequalities.

I blog, vlog, write for media and get invited to guest on TV, radio, podcasts and panel discussions. I’ve always been a pretty vocal “tell it like it is” kind of person, which is getting worse/better as I’ve got older (depending which way you look at it).

Please get in touch if you’d benefit from my lived experience expertise in some way.

Ellie x

PS – I’m swimming the Swim Serpentine “Super Six” 6-mile swim this September for the amazing peer support charity Survivors of Bereavement by Suicide if you would like to sponsor me via JustGiving. Thank you!



Published work
Blog posts
10 years after my dad’s death by suicide, the top 10 things that still surprise me
By Ellie Hatto, July 2023 A personal reflection of real life after …
Advocating for Compassion and Better Treatment: Transforming the Coroner’s Inquest System for Those Bereaved by Suicide 
By Ellie Hatto, January 2024 This thought piece aims to amplify the …

Media articles

“Suicidal thoughts affect older people too – I lost my beloved father at 82” – Metro first person article for World Suicide Prevention Day 2023

” ‘It feels like performative empathy’: Why opt out emails for Father’s Day can make the grief worse” – The Big Issue, 16 June 2024


Podcast & radio appearances, vlogs, campaign videos and panel discussions

Guesting on The Secret Life of Mothers podcast: The Motherless Mother

The Jordan Legacy “Jordan’s Space” Yowah radio show 35: ‘Voluntary Assisted’ Dying vs ‘Assisted Suicide’ interview discussion

Sounddelivery Media Presents: A Conversation on Suicide – YouTube panel discussion

Guesting on Metro “Mentally Yours” podcast for World Suicide Prevention Day 2023

“Do you know where to go for help?” – YouTube video campaign for World Suicide Prevention Day 2023 for Southern Health NHS Foundation Trust

“Post-traumatic effects of suicide bereavement” – Vlog, 1 July 2024

“Inquest Issues” – Vlog, 4 August 2023

“Reframing how we describe our loved one (who died by suicide)” – Vlog, 4 August 2023

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